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Looking for a cofounder? Reverse the order of operations

March 02, 2011

People get too attached to their ideas. When you think about something for a long time it becomes "yours." That makes it hard for someone else to also feel ownership over it. But if you want a true cofounder, you need someone who feels like he owns an equal portion of the idea.

That's why I think people should try to find cofounders before they develop their ideas. Even if you already have an idea, I think you're better off throwing it out and then looking for a cofounder.

At a minimum you shouldn't make working on your current idea a prerequisite for someone being your cofounder. If you do, you're taking a really hard problem -- finding someone you can start a company with -- and replacing it with an even harder problem -- finding someone you can start a specific company with. That's probably an order of magnitude harder to do.

Look for a cofounder before you seriously develop an idea, or at least keep yourself open to completely different ideas. Find someone you gel with, and then develop an idea together.